I know you are probably feeling overwhelmed and stressed about your finances. Maybe you want to know that quick tip to pay off your debt or save more money this month.
I won’t make you wade through paragraphs of information, instead I will give you my quick tip right here at the start:
Go out and play.
Do something fun today.
Laugh like you did when you were a little girl.
How will this help me pay off my debt and save more money?
I am so glad that you ask!
What if you don’t need to keep pushing to accomplish your goals?
What if you could play, have fun, and create financial peace of mind?
Going out and having fun is a way we can tap into our feminine energy. More on why that is important in a minute, but first let’s talk about masculine and feminine energy.
Regardless of our gender we all have both masculine and feminine energies within us.
The masculine energy is connected to our brain and is logical and practical, but in its toxic form can lead to judgement, fear, anger, and resentment. Our feminine energy is more connected with our heart and feelings. It is a creative and loving energy where we can connect with our intuition, compassion, and truth. In its toxic form the feminine energy can feel weak and powerless and like a victim.
The leading financial advice has been to harness our masculine energy to take action, stay focused, make logical and disciplined changes. I will not dispute that this traditional financial advice is both powerful and effective. It is also very logical and practical which serves you if you are totally clear on your vision and goals AND the path on how to bring this to life.
However, if you are not where you want to be financially then I challenge you to trust me and try something new!
Most women I work with aren’t completely clear on what they desire.
I know what I want, you say!
Yes, I agree, you may have a list of things you want to achieve in your finances. However, my experience has shown me that while most of clients can rattle off a list of goals, when I dig a bit deeper asking their “why” for these goals many come up unsure. When we explore more and go beyond the immediate fear of financial safety and tap into financial DESIRE we find so many unspoken dreams that felt too indulgent or unrealistic and even impossible and out of reach. To avoid disappointment, they buried these dreams down deep and tried to forget them.
Why go out and play?
When you go out and play and have fun and laugh you will tap into your hearts deepest desires. You will connect with your truth and inner guidance; intuition. Our intuition sees opportunities where our logical brain sees limitations, fear, and stress. The feeling of opportunity and deep trust is the place to build your financial plan from. Once this is clear we can tap into our healthy masculine energy to create a safe and supportive financial framework to guide you on your path to financial success.
Go take a walk in nature or spend some time by the water and give yourself a few minutes to daydream like you did when you were a little girl.
What did you dream about?
Let’s talk about your dreams and create a plan to bring this to life? Lets continue the conversation! Share with me your dreams in the Facebook Group.
Katie Mongelli is a CPA and financial coach in the Washington, DC Metro Area. She teaches clients how to heal their money story so they can have the confidence and joy they desire with their finances. Sign up for free weekly money tips on www.MonarchFinancialCoaching.com and check your inbox every Tuesday!